Tell yourself

Tell yourself “my inner peace is more important” when you’re faced with challenging situations that test your patience.

Sometimes stepping back and remembering how important your inner stability is saves you from overreacting and overthinking things. Be at peace and let it go.

Don’t personalise or internalise other people’s behaviour

I know that can be hard

What they do is not a reflection of you. Their actions represent them and where they’re at in their growth. Just observe instead of getting caught up and overreacting emotionally.

Choose to grow from it so you become better and attract better. It’s all just a learning experience.

React with love. Sometimes that means retaliating with understanding and compassion; other times it means retaliating with acceptance and sheer silence.

Ignoring can do wonders, trust me on this.

Whatever it is, make sure you stay in a space that doesn’t keep you depleted way after something is over. Just take the lessons and move on gracefully.

Next time you feel wronged, just let go; surrender. Don't get angry or sad and depressed because something didn’t work out like you thought it would or things didn’t go as planned or somebody didn’t live up to your expectations.

People will always do what they want and it's not your place to suffer or try to force them to be how you want them to be.

That takes too much energy and we all know how much effort in takes to even change our own self. So unfollow them or block them on social media. Trust me again on this

However, the moment you change the focus back on yourself and the things you want, something magical happens.

Letting go and allowing instead of being resistant and fearful actually attracts to you exactly what it is that you want.

Surrender to the universe and allow yourself to be guided to your soul's purpose. Look for signs, they are always around us.

When you decide to not react to people's nonsense, you decide to take full control over your life. You decide how you want to feel, rather than becoming a button for people to push.

Don't ever let anyone close your heart and mind to the endless possibilities that life has to offer you. Don't give people that kind of power over you.